This is sort of a follow up thread from the "lol, crazy?" one I posted a while ago. (link) I've been working on that, and it's been getting better, but still hard to deal with. He's been hanging out with his friends way more than he ever has. He sees them more than he sees me, now. I've also found myself becoming more obsessive and paranoid. I'm constantly questioning whether he loves me. He insists he does, but I still can't bring myself to fully believe him. I feel like the best way to get over this would be to break up with him. But I really don't want to not be with him.. I'm really confused, and just wanted to hear some opinions or something.
I've been feeling especially depressed lately, so I've tried talking to him. He told me that he's been getting annoyed that I can't get over it, so I can't even really talk to him anymore. And ugh, I'm starting to restrict him from doing the things that he wants to. His best friend's 18th birthday is in August, and they want to go to Canada together.. I'd be fine with that, however, he plans to go to strip clubs and drinking. The drinking I'd be okay with, but he has told me if I went drinking with my friends, he'd break up with me. The strip club I am definitely not okay with, at all. I told him I didn't want him going, and after some frustration, he agreed. But now I feel guilty and bleh. Don't know if I should break up with him or not. <:/
I've been feeling especially depressed lately, so I've tried talking to him. He told me that he's been getting annoyed that I can't get over it, so I can't even really talk to him anymore. And ugh, I'm starting to restrict him from doing the things that he wants to. His best friend's 18th birthday is in August, and they want to go to Canada together.. I'd be fine with that, however, he plans to go to strip clubs and drinking. The drinking I'd be okay with, but he has told me if I went drinking with my friends, he'd break up with me. The strip club I am definitely not okay with, at all. I told him I didn't want him going, and after some frustration, he agreed. But now I feel guilty and bleh. Don't know if I should break up with him or not. <:/