Hello everyone! Okay well just generally asking first-----What are your thoughts on best friends, dating them, liking them, or deciding you might as well stop? Just general.
Now to me problem...well to summarize a long and boring story, me and my best fiend , of 10 years now i think, havnt been the greatest but who is actually? So we have come to the whole "date my best friend"??? phase and it turns out she doesnt see us getting together anytime soon, while i have been waiting since like 5th grade, so now i dont want to ignore her but i really do need time to bounce back from this terrible heartbreak....sure you say she should understand but she wont, she'll take it as a omen we are going to stop being friends soon, and im not ok with her thinking that but if thats what it takes for me to get around then i guess so but my question is....am i being selfish? is all of this selfishness? thanks for the anwsers anyone....been a tough month ha
Now to me problem...well to summarize a long and boring story, me and my best fiend , of 10 years now i think, havnt been the greatest but who is actually? So we have come to the whole "date my best friend"??? phase and it turns out she doesnt see us getting together anytime soon, while i have been waiting since like 5th grade, so now i dont want to ignore her but i really do need time to bounce back from this terrible heartbreak....sure you say she should understand but she wont, she'll take it as a omen we are going to stop being friends soon, and im not ok with her thinking that but if thats what it takes for me to get around then i guess so but my question is....am i being selfish? is all of this selfishness? thanks for the anwsers anyone....been a tough month ha