Alright, so there's this one girl I'm close friends with. Like, we help each other out of huge jams, and tell each other everything. Like, we legitimately know everything about each other.
We've bee nhaving some really in dept conversations about everything in our respective lives. One being the issues I'm having with my dad. Like, a while ago, before I found out about the issues with my dad and the drugs, I had gotten in a huge fight with her, and we hated each other for a while. nd we didn't talk for a few months, until a few days after I found out about my dad and I saw her at the train station. My train was late, and her mom was late, so we were just talking for about 10 minutes, we made up, and everything. this was back in February. But yesterday, we were both up at our pool, and we were the only ones there. She asked me if anything new happened with my dad, and I told her about him (FINALLY) moving to Virginia, resolving some of the problems, especially since I haven't talked to the man in a month.
Well, we had a talk about it that lasted quite a while. We were sitting at a table, and I just told her how everything s changed me. She honestly was surprised about everything, especially since a while ago she knew I was an asshole to people, and lately I've been as nice as I can be to avoid EVER being like my dad. And I told her advice my unrelated older brother gave me, which was to "Live life as it comes. You can't let anything, ANYTHING you asshole of a father does bother you. You clearly are the better person, and you won't be like him. You're a good kid, Eddie, and I don't wanna see you turn out like him." Those were his exact words. I live those words everyday, and its been a lifesaver. I just told her about how I just can't be like him, or I'd be a failure to everyone I know. She figured out why my attitude and personalty have altered so much the past year, and she found out yesterday.
But we were also talking about our relationship status, like, how I broke up with an amazing girl 3 weeks or so ago because the distance, plus the fact she didn't want to hurt me, since my ex knows everything I've gone through as well. But I told her about how everything in that perspective ended, and how I finally started getting over her til the girl imed me the other day. And I've been confused. Mind you, the girl I was telling everything about is like, one of those people who whenever you need to talk, you can always talk to her.
She told me about her boyfriend. The ywere going out for 8 months ,but broke up because they weren't talking. This girl still liked the guy, and the guy still liked her, so when the guy asked me if he should ask her out again, I told him to go for it. The girl doesn't know that though, even though I was saving her from being stalked by this guy from some foreign country, which is a whole different story that I'd prefer not to get into. But, she wants to break up again, because she liked me. And I kinda liked her. Before we had our fight, we were clearly playing cat and mouse, like, we'd date other people, sometimes trying to draw jealousy. We've been on the verge of actually going out on more than one occasion, but things always seem to get messes up.
Well, I like her, she likes me, but she also kinda still likes her boyfriend, who is also a good friend of mine. I have no idea what to do, because I don't want to see either one of them go through anger or anything because of something I'm involved in. I know, my aspects of this emotional stuff have been messed up lately, but some of you may know why.
That is why I'm requesting your help. Any ideas on what I should do, or am I being too vague on things?
We've bee nhaving some really in dept conversations about everything in our respective lives. One being the issues I'm having with my dad. Like, a while ago, before I found out about the issues with my dad and the drugs, I had gotten in a huge fight with her, and we hated each other for a while. nd we didn't talk for a few months, until a few days after I found out about my dad and I saw her at the train station. My train was late, and her mom was late, so we were just talking for about 10 minutes, we made up, and everything. this was back in February. But yesterday, we were both up at our pool, and we were the only ones there. She asked me if anything new happened with my dad, and I told her about him (FINALLY) moving to Virginia, resolving some of the problems, especially since I haven't talked to the man in a month.
Well, we had a talk about it that lasted quite a while. We were sitting at a table, and I just told her how everything s changed me. She honestly was surprised about everything, especially since a while ago she knew I was an asshole to people, and lately I've been as nice as I can be to avoid EVER being like my dad. And I told her advice my unrelated older brother gave me, which was to "Live life as it comes. You can't let anything, ANYTHING you asshole of a father does bother you. You clearly are the better person, and you won't be like him. You're a good kid, Eddie, and I don't wanna see you turn out like him." Those were his exact words. I live those words everyday, and its been a lifesaver. I just told her about how I just can't be like him, or I'd be a failure to everyone I know. She figured out why my attitude and personalty have altered so much the past year, and she found out yesterday.
But we were also talking about our relationship status, like, how I broke up with an amazing girl 3 weeks or so ago because the distance, plus the fact she didn't want to hurt me, since my ex knows everything I've gone through as well. But I told her about how everything in that perspective ended, and how I finally started getting over her til the girl imed me the other day. And I've been confused. Mind you, the girl I was telling everything about is like, one of those people who whenever you need to talk, you can always talk to her.
She told me about her boyfriend. The ywere going out for 8 months ,but broke up because they weren't talking. This girl still liked the guy, and the guy still liked her, so when the guy asked me if he should ask her out again, I told him to go for it. The girl doesn't know that though, even though I was saving her from being stalked by this guy from some foreign country, which is a whole different story that I'd prefer not to get into. But, she wants to break up again, because she liked me. And I kinda liked her. Before we had our fight, we were clearly playing cat and mouse, like, we'd date other people, sometimes trying to draw jealousy. We've been on the verge of actually going out on more than one occasion, but things always seem to get messes up.
Well, I like her, she likes me, but she also kinda still likes her boyfriend, who is also a good friend of mine. I have no idea what to do, because I don't want to see either one of them go through anger or anything because of something I'm involved in. I know, my aspects of this emotional stuff have been messed up lately, but some of you may know why.
That is why I'm requesting your help. Any ideas on what I should do, or am I being too vague on things?