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[Samber]

There is this guy, his name is Nick. I've known him since 6th grade, and I disliked him very much back then, he was so annoying. He would always be loud and abnoxious. But now he is in my 6th period, and, he's so different. He is kind, and caring. And I keep thinking about him, and it's getting annoying. He already had a girlfriend, and even if he didn't we are from such different background that I couldn't possibly see us together. I just want the feelings to go away, does anyone have any suggestions?

 

[Zesty]

feeling dont work that way
its probably a crush and in time they'll go away

 

[Danica Syer]

feeling dont work that way
its probably a crush and in time they'll go away

I agree. I still have a crush on this guy ever since I saw him during Freshmen year (yeah love at first sight) and I'm trying to get over him
But try to occupy your mind with something else or get over him as fast you can.
Oh btw, he's the guy I talk about in another post called 'Help! I like a guy and I need any of you guys' advice!' so yeah, lol! Well good luck and I know how you feel...hope this helps.

 

[anime_chic]

like ktd said because little skool crushes go in a breeze but if you LOVE him, well thats another different story...

 

[Zesty]

can we not use the L word
i've heard enough of that word to last me a life time

 

[TheLastKnight]

hey, get busy doing something else, get involed with something...to get your mind off him...

 

[Samber]

Meh, I don't LOVE him. Its probably a crush, and hopefully it will go away.

 

[axemyxas100]

I agree with ShadowKnight and Sorafan, and yes, it sounds like you got a crush. Well I'd say, keep your mind occupy other things and try to forget about the crush.

 

[swizzle]

probably will go away, ur probably jsut attracted to him, but if you like the way he acts now, why do you not like him anymore? is he still with the girlfreind or something?

 

[Samber]

Yeah he has a girlfriend, it's not that I don't dislike him, I just... Couldn't see us together.

 

[Deeman]

Hey thar, Sammy. >:/

Your in a situation like me--kinda. This sort of thing is a crush, and unless you talk to him a lot and really get to know him better, it'll probably go away in a matter of days. Do you still hang out with him or is it just one of those situations where you just sit back and eye him down?

Also, he might not have a girlfriend for forever, so don't be afraid to jump on in when the area's clear. Don't worry about these feelings, either. They're only natural.

 

[Samber]

Ok thanks Dee. <3

I talk to him occasionally, but he is one of those kids that always talk in class and starts interesting class conversations, so it's almost I know him better than he knows me. I'm also one of those people who are good at reading others and their body language, so I usually can see how a person is without really even talking to them a whole lot. I think that that is my downfall in situations like this, because I usually just watch people to know them, instead of actually talking to them.

 

[Sonja~Soulheart]

that's a case of infatuation.. or crush for short. (or whatever u call it ^^;;; )

solution: hang-out with friends. do something your pretty much interested in (like improving in something you like :3)

it'll eventually go away if its only a crush though

 

[Annoyance]

So...what's the problem?
You're slightly attracted to the kid. Big deal. Minor crushes like this happen all the time.

 

[TheLastKnight]

heh, just try to get something off your mind...just try to stay with it, don't let anything distract you...

 

[Disluxia]

There is this guy, his name is Nick. I've known him since 6th grade, and I disliked him very much back then, he was so annoying. He would always be loud and abnoxious. But now he is in my 6th period, and, he's so different. He is kind, and caring. And I keep thinking about him, and it's getting annoying. He already had a girlfriend, and even if he didn't we are from such different background that I couldn't possibly see us together. I just want the feelings to go away, does anyone have any suggestions?

Well, honestly i see no problem in a normal healthy crush i say you become friends with him and just see how it goes cause hey maybe the best part about him is that he's different why not try something new right?