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[Blackcat]

Just go for it!!!!
If she says no who cares more fishy in the seaaaaa.

 

[Exvind]

I suppose the only advise would be to just ask her out, see how it goes. Unfortunately, that is the best way.

 

[Norpthalomus]

Okay there's this girl...
HA! you thought i was going to start writing a crappy romance novel huh?
nah I'm just messing with the reader.
but in all seriousness, there's this girl i like, who I've known for about 3-4 years now.
all of a sudden I've developed a crush on her in the last few months.
problem is were friends. And worse yet im friends with her friends! sigh cruel cruel irony.
whenever i talk to her she seems to laugh at my jokes(even though my jokes suck)
she also smiles at me whenever i look at her during lunch at school.
She also likes the same things as me(movies, books tv shows...etc)
oh and another thing i can't tell if my friend's mess around with her or if one of my friends likes her!
gah god dam my friend who shall remain nameless.
If she rejects me it would end our friendship. even though if she did do that i would be fine with being friends.
but im a coward.
I don't have the courage to tell her my feelings.
so what should i do?
man up and tell her?
or just be friends?
dam this is going to be weird in the future.
Girl I like: So how did you come up with asking me out?
Me: well i went on to this site.
GIL: "slaps me"
Me: what was that for?! All i said was i went on this site for help
gets slapped again...
oh yeah thats going to be a funny ass story to tell...

It's obviously your call, but if I were you, I would go for it. Chances are she feels the same way. And you're only living life if you enjoy it.

Do everything so that you have no regrets in the future. Good luck, bro.

 

[SilentTrinity]

thanks for all the advice guys
i uh sorta asked her something
nothing major!
just something to better understand something
anyway ill ask her out when i see her next time
thanks again!
ill tell you what happens just because im bored..

 

[D∆NTE]

Just go for it!!!!
If she says no who cares more fishy in the seaaaaa.

Thats what you think. I'ts not tht easy.

 

[Norpthalomus]

thanks for all the advice guys
i uh sorta asked her something
nothing major!
just something to better understand something
anyway ill ask her out when i see her next time
thanks again!
ill tell you what happens just because im bored..

Good luck man. Everything's going to work out.

 

[Duskk]

Seriously just go for it. The way you described the way they acts around you makes it sound like she likes you, too. If things don't work out, then yeah your friendship might be awkward or even fall apart for awhile, but it'll come back around eventually.

 

[SilentTrinity]

sigh this sucks
Haven't posted in this thread in a while but here's what happened...
okay so today I was about to ask the girl who I liked to go out with me. But before i could do something she goes off with my friend and tells him that she likes him.
Now he told me something along the lines of that her ex still likes her and he doesn't want to do blah blah blah..
anyway that sorta ruined the rest of my day.
just wanted to post that since it helps..

 

[Norpthalomus]

sigh this sucks
Haven't posted in this thread in a while but here's what happened...
okay so today I was about to ask the girl who I liked to go out with me. But before i could do something she goes off with my friend and tells him that she likes him.
Now he told me something along the lines of that her ex still likes her and he doesn't want to do blah blah blah..
anyway that sorta ruined the rest of my day.
just wanted to post that since it helps..

Aw man, I'm sorry. It'll probably blow over soon, and you'll get another shot.

And there's always a chance that you misunderstood who she liked.

Hell, she might even misunderstand who she likes.

Just give it more time, it'll work out.

 

[KeybladeLegacy5]

Aww dude that sucks, just give it some time and hopefully it will work out...keep us updated too because this is kinda interesting

 

[SilentTrinity]

wow glad you think its interesting.(seriously im not even fucking kidding
anyway also found out the reason she told my best friend.
apparently her father's company is making them all move to Florida around August. So before the school year is out im a going to tell her.
eh its a decent plan but it works!
yo! so i decided to edit this post here so i can tell ya guys.
most likely since after Winter Formal(which was Saturday) i haven't been able to talk to, just because my friends kept talking to her, so its getting harder and hard to talk to her.
thats all i wanted to say.
ill defiantly tell her before August...
i hope...

 

[SilentTrinity]

omg i finally did it
well sorta

okay so a few minutes ago i asked the girl i like to go see a movie with me.
she said yes. though idk if she likes me i hav a good feeling about it
anyway sorry bout double posting but this deserves a post!

 

[Nyangoro]

^ Hey, nice job! You found your balls! Feel free to look at my sig for added approval.

 

[SilentTrinity]

thanks Nevermore! yeah i did bout time! lol so happy its hard to type!

 

[Endgame]

We seriously need a generic, one-size-fits-all 'I like this girl' thread.

Then we could just link people to it instead of typing the same advice over and over again.

 

[Weeaboo]

Good job on asking her out.

Be sure to tell us if anything JUICY happens ;D

 

[iSeeYOU]

Lol I read the whole 3 pages =/ ... It's cool man, never hurts to try.

 

[Norpthalomus]

omg i finally did it
well sorta

okay so a few minutes ago i asked the girl i like to go see a movie with me.
she said yes. though idk if she likes me i hav a good feeling about it
anyway sorry bout double posting but this deserves a post!

Congratulations! I knew you could do it. Let us know how it plays out.

 

[Fire's fan]

Take the chance!Or you'll wonder forever if she would have said yes!
And forget your freind it's about you and her!

 

[SilentTrinity]

yeah thanks for all the advice but this page can be closed now...
found out she only said yes because...sigh she thinks of me as only a friend...
sorry bout that but if a mod can, please close this thread...