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Nelo Angelo

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I have to agree with a few of the guys here Mikey, yo havent done anything wrong or doing anything wrong. Your dad seems to have the issues about it. Deep down he does love you, all parents do. Why he doenst show it, I dont know. You just have to try and get him to talk to you about it. Dont say things like you have failed him, cuz you havent, you know you havent. Seriously. Its he who seems to have some sort of problem.
 

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Have I done enough!?

Why do I have to do it. I don't want to but that's just the way it is with my family. I made this thread for me to see if anyone else has gone through this and how they handled it so I could have an example. I just need to know what they did so I know what I'm doing is right.

All this stuff has been he's the failure not you, but that doesn't help. What did the people who have been where I am do and did they feel it was right.

maybe I shouldn't have made this thread but... oh I don't know.

I feel like I need this love to be a good. I just need to think.

What you guys said about it not mattering and why do you care is what I needed to hear too.

Do I really need this or do I just feel like need.
 

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EVeryone wants to feel love, but if you can not get it, then its more painful to dramatize . I want to be loved, you want to be loved, everyone wants to be loved.
 
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I honestly don't understand what's so important about having your family members love you. It's such a load of crap. I couldn't give two shits if my family hated me, honest to God.

Honestly, I can't see why this is so important to you, and I can see less why you would kill yourself over it. Try growing up, and thinking a little more maturely.
She is a girl, you are a boy.

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He can't do it because I haven't lived up to him.

Okay, there is writing on the wall and you are choosing not to read it. Did you create this thread because you wanted advice or because you were looking for a place where you could wallow in self pity?

I hate repeating myself but I'll say this one more time; you are his daughter and he doesn't need any other reason to love you. Parents aren't supposed to bring a child into this world and start judging them right out of the gate, and that is exactly what your father has done. Therefore it is his failure, his shortcoming, his mistake -- and not yours.

I hope those words sink in.

There's nothing more I can do for you. I've given you the facts and you want to ignore them. For some reason you insist on glorifying your father and deprecating yourself.

Oh well. Good luck.
 

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Do I really need this or do I just feel like need.

From what I understand, you've made this little space in your heart that, filled with your dad's love, will make your life perfect and complete. But you can't change how ppl feel, and it's compleatly possible that your father doesn't love you.

If your father doesn't love you, then you'll just to deal with that. On the other hand, you have two other ppl who love you. Enjoy the love of two people, and accept that you don't have the love of one other person.

There's little else you can do, and it's going to be quite the issue if you don't get over or resolve this "Daddy Doesn't Care" problem.
 

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I don't want to ignore him! I love him a lot I just want him to return my love.

No offense, but this is why your dad goes into the Suckers category. Cuz to me he just sounds like one of the guys out there that just wants to screw you over, even if you are family.

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Now that I think of it, you should be happy you have both your real parents.

Feel grateful you know them.
 

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I've never even met my father. Having one to hate would be fine with me.

Still, I can see where your dad is coming from. I certainly hope I never have a daughter if this is the kind of shit I'd have to put up with.
 

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Hes your dad. Hes probably the least important person in your life. Live with the people who love you, and go on with your life like that.
 
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