Okay, I have this guy at school. I was best friends with him for 2 and a half years (approx.) and then I started trying to get away from him because he was getting clingy and all that. It has been one and a half years of me trying to subtly hint it to him. However, I can not find it in myself to actually tell him to back off.
Well, I try to get away from him by going to other friends but in about a few days, he too is trying to be friends with them. He always talks to the one I talk to most as well. It is just freaky.
Then, he finds a picture of me on the school server (I will admit it is a bad pic) and he starts photoshopping it onto things, same as a few others. He does it on things like Harry Potter, Hitler and Superwoman. I get annoyed and ask them to stop and delete all the pics. Everyone but he does. He keeps it and then goes really far, he photoshops my face onto Jake Gyllenhall in a BrokeBack Mountain Picture. He even keeps this pictures on him laptop.
As if that didn't creep me out enough, he is always looking at me as I have conversations with others and even adds in things about me. He always walk over to where I am, always follows me and always talks about me. He always chooses the same classes as me and his dream career changes as mine does, to whatever my new one is.
He is really creeping me out and because he has never had a girlfriend or ever showed any interest in women, I fear he may be attracted to me. I may be gay but I don't want to be with him.
I discussed this with some friends and some say I am paranoid and making it up, some say he is just obsessed and others say he is gay for me.
After reading that what do you guys think (paranoid, obsessed or gay) and how do you suppose I deal with it, please keep in mind that I don't think I have it in me to just yell at him until he gets the message that I don't like him at all.
Please help
Well, I try to get away from him by going to other friends but in about a few days, he too is trying to be friends with them. He always talks to the one I talk to most as well. It is just freaky.
Then, he finds a picture of me on the school server (I will admit it is a bad pic) and he starts photoshopping it onto things, same as a few others. He does it on things like Harry Potter, Hitler and Superwoman. I get annoyed and ask them to stop and delete all the pics. Everyone but he does. He keeps it and then goes really far, he photoshops my face onto Jake Gyllenhall in a BrokeBack Mountain Picture. He even keeps this pictures on him laptop.
As if that didn't creep me out enough, he is always looking at me as I have conversations with others and even adds in things about me. He always walk over to where I am, always follows me and always talks about me. He always chooses the same classes as me and his dream career changes as mine does, to whatever my new one is.
He is really creeping me out and because he has never had a girlfriend or ever showed any interest in women, I fear he may be attracted to me. I may be gay but I don't want to be with him.
I discussed this with some friends and some say I am paranoid and making it up, some say he is just obsessed and others say he is gay for me.
After reading that what do you guys think (paranoid, obsessed or gay) and how do you suppose I deal with it, please keep in mind that I don't think I have it in me to just yell at him until he gets the message that I don't like him at all.
Please help