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Vossler

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Okay at lunch today half of my friends split up and sat at different tables.I had no idea what was going on, so I sat with the friends that I knew the best. Out of no where thought they started ragging on me and making fun of me for no reason. I don't know what to do about it they have never done that before. On another note they are not the type of guys to talk to them about the issue. Do I stop hanging out with them?
 

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i rly wish i can answer this question for you... cause i've been through a simillar situation... i say just follow ur gut feeling.
 

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Why not try to talk it out and see what's going on? If you do, you'll probably know why they are treating you the way they are. Don't let them nag you or whatever. Just talk to them or at least try. If they want to ditch your or whatever, they aren't really good friends are they now? If you can't talk to them, try to talk to somebody who knows you really well or you are comfortable with to get the issue talk. You shouldn't stop hanging out with them yet unless they treat you like dirt and never apologize for their wrongdoing. I kinda had friends like that. Good luck, otherwise! I'll come back and check if there's any progress.
 

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I would ask them why they're all of a sudden leaving you behind. If things get worse, drop them as your friends.
 

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Maybe there's just a group conflict. Ask around; don't be so hasty or jump to conclusions.
 

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try to talk to them and get them to explain what was going on
if they won't tell you, i'd wait a day or two and see what happens. sometimes some people will wait a few days before they'll tell you what's going on (that's what my friends and i do to each other)
 

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obviously you did, or said something to be made fun of...
perhaps that's the case because i think it's pretty common,
hell if i slipped on the bathroom floor in front of a few friends
i'd expect a big laugh in the next day
 
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Nobody needs friends. Ditch them and grab an mp3 player and chill out at lunch.
 

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Okay at lunch today half of my friends split up and sat at different tables.I had no idea what was going on, so I sat with the friends that I knew the best. Out of no where thought they started ragging on me and making fun of me for no reason. I don't know what to do about it they have never done that before. On another note they are not the type of guys to talk to them about the issue. Do I stop hanging out with them?

So are you saying your friends all seperated, moved to a different table, and then, when you moved to sit with one group of your friends you knew the best, they made fun of you? =o
 

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Eh the best advice I can give you is they're just messing around. My friends do it to me all the time, generally out of nowhere. But if it gets worse ask them why. If they don't say they're just messing around drop em...bitches.
 

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Some of my friends do this to me too. I'm showing signs they're kinda pissing me off, but idk what they think on that. I even told them they were being assholes, they just laughed. I haven't dropped them yet, but I'm debating that still. And this has been going for about a month or so, so as others have said, just wait and see what's up. Don't do anything you'll regret, etc
 

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Try asking them what's going on, and why they're avoiding you and making fun of you. If they don't want to tell you, ditch them for a while. Let them come to you themselves and confess why they're doing what they are doing to you.
 
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