Days was (to my knowledge) supposed to be about Roxas and life in the Organization and the Organization themselves.
Not quite :\ it was more Roxas's time in the Organization, and for better or worse - that IS what we got. Roxas going out on missions and slowly evolving into his KH2 persona due to his friendship with Axel and Xion, and his odd interactions with the remaining Organization members.
The fact he had little plot to call his own doesn't contradict this, as much as people might not like it.
They seemed like background compared to Xion's constant screentime and intervention.
As the "Sora" in the game, it only makes sense. Too bad that Roxas was too much of a
Ven to merit a better protagonist position.
plus her "tragedy" was forced down my throat.
Any and all tragedies in that game were forced down your throat.
can you honestly say Riku was in character too when it came to her?
Actually, yes. Yes, I can. Because Riku stopped being the cold hearted prick who'd do everything no matter the cost at the end of KH1, and even a bit before, when XH possessed him and kicked him out of his own vessel, thus clearing his mind and Heart of some Darkness, letting him return to his senses. He was worried in KH2 about not being able to face Sora and the others; he showed regret about what he did to Roxas (but that he HAD to given the circumstances). So yeah, I really think that giving the girl a chance to think things over and being friendly and compassionate towards her was in-character.
And I'll be bitter - I didn't see anyone complain about Riku patting Namine and half hugging her in the novels. If someone did, please link me to it, but I didn't see any of that. It does come to show, however, that Riku's... well, a physically affectionate person. That's been true since the first final mix when we got the bunch of SoRiku flashbacks and we saw he wasn't afraid to reach out to people.
Then you get thrown in his experience with Repliku which I can only imagine affected things, seeing how he knew what Xion was, her having Kairi's face and being a part of Sora.
So, yes. I honestly and eternally will say that Riku was in-character when it came to Xion.
And as to why he didn't act the same way with Roxas?
1) Roxas was going to get himself killed. He kind of had to keep him down.
2) Xion herself. No one begged Riku to stop Xion; Xion begged Riku to stop Roxas.
3) Roxas himself. Different people will get different attitudes out of people. So... by definition, yeah, adds up he'd treat them differently.
the game felt...fan-ficish.
This is KH. Most of the series feels like that.
sure she's cute and all but so is Kairi.
...that, I disagree with.
What I'm really trying to say is, I don't understand what was great about her besides being Roxas' Kairi.
She wasn't even really a Kairi xD;;; she was a lot more a Sora.
and no one bothers to explain why...they just yell at me and tell me i'm a "hater" when really I present reasons to disliking Xion while they do nothing but present their dislike of me
Why do I like her? Well, to sum it up, she was "The Kairi I've always wanted", as bad and twisted as this sounds.
Despite plot reasons which Roxas shared at times causing her to become weaker, she was, indeed, a fighter, and with a good reason behind it. We got a lot of insight about her and got to see her relationships develop. Even if we didn't, like with Riku, those relationships made sense to me, given how I perceive the characters from the other titles.
During those times she turned out to be what I can only describe as a "Good Girl". Yes, she's giggly and adorable and caring and kind, but she can get her mean, bitter streaks when push comes to shove, like with Saix, and at the beginning, with Riku. And through it all she cares ridiculously for her friends to the point she'd put them before her and I can't, for the life of me, really relate it that much to either Sora or Ven because the circumstances are different and I really have to wonder how they'd have reacted, especially seeing how a great big part of why Xion was able to "go away" willingly was knowing what she was. She's her own person to me.
I know this sounds "Mary Sue"-ish to quite a few people, but I just can't see her as such. Most Mary Sues I run into are shallow, underdeveloped characters whose very existence makes things worse or better, and they are often left without explanations. Xion's concept was established as early on as CoM with Repliku; it fell back on pre-established events, most likely the Xemnas fight in the first Final Mix as well. And then we have her mixing Sora and Riku's Memories up which also make me not believe for a moment she's self-contained within Days, even without her being one of the people
whose torment Sora needs to end.
So yeah. I donno if this answered it or not. I was mostly babbling.