Help/Support ► Why is it never me?

[Tattered Rebirth]

Where the hell did you pull that from, Twilight?

Word somehow gets out I like her and she avoids me or someone tells me she likes someone else and it's /crush.

I don't expect every girl I like to like me back. But I never get a chance to do anything with my crush except end it and move on.

 

[Noo Monkey]

Okay, stop telling people who you like then.
And don't continuously look at her etc.

 

[Tattered Rebirth]

I don't tell people. I tell my 2 best friends, and I trust them completely, so I doubt they tell anyone.

 

[Noo Monkey]

Well, they must find out somehow then.
I'm sure there are people who like you that you would avoid if you knew they liked you.
Or maybe not. I don't know you personally.

 

[Wehrmacht]

I believe it. I'm saying that this happens every time I like someone, and I'm f*cking sick of it.

I don't expect every girl I like to like me back. But I never get a chance to do anything with my crush except end it and move on.

That's how it is a lot of the time. Not much else to suggest but simply learning to deal with it. Easier said than done, but it's how things are.

 

[TheLastKnight]

You'll never get a date when you question yourself or ask for help ONLINE. Just be yourself, if a woman doesn't like you, you probably shouldn't question yourself about it. Just let it go, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[Tattered Rebirth]

Damn, I'm tired of hearing that saying.

 

[scubasteve]

List of things to achieve before turning 18:

• Obtain Nintendo DS and 358/2 Days
• Obtain PSP and Birth By Sleep (if available)
• Eagle Scout (Currently: Star)

These might have something to do with your problem.

 

[violent_anger]

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.
There's more than one way to fry a fish.
Quitters never win, winners never quit.

Are any of these overused saying helping either? And, how sure are you about these two friends of yours? They might not even take it seriously, let alone guard your secret crush with their lives.

 

[TheLastKnight]

Okay then, if you won't listen, I suppose I can try to help.

What are some of your good talents? DO NOT say game playing because I doubt anyone will want to help you...

 

[Tattered Rebirth]

These might have something to do with your problem.

Wow, kill me for enjoying video games/ wanting to get into a good college.

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.
There's more than one way to fry a fish.
Quitters never win, winners never quit.

Are any of these overused saying helping either? And, how sure are you about these two friends of yours? They might not even take it seriously, let alone guard your secret crush with their lives.

Haven't heard the second saying before. I'm extremely trusting about my 2 friends, too. It takes a lot to get into my inner circle.

Okay then, if you won't listen, I suppose I can try to help.

What are some of your good talents? DO NOT say game playing because I doubt anyone will want to help you...

I'm a musician, I'm somewhat funny, and I've always been good at giving advice.

 

[violent_anger]

Wow, kill me for enjoying video games/ wanting to get into a good college.

Nintendo DS + ??? = GOOD COLLEGE
Is that how it works?

Haven't heard the second saying before.

Think it was really skin a cat or something.

 

[Tattered Rebirth]

I was talking about Eagle Scout. Colleges/people hiring look for that first, because it's a difficult achievement.

 

[TheLastKnight]

Haha, I'm a musician too. you can't think of anything to wow her with that?
And tell jokes if you're THAT funny.
And if you give good advice, what the freakin' hell are you doing asking us for some?

 

[Tattered Rebirth]

I find myself unable to give myself advice. haha

 

[TheLastKnight]

I apologize but I find that hilarious. How often do you talk to women that you like?

 

[Tattered Rebirth]

Pretty often, I guess. They're normally in the band as well, so I see them often.

 

[TheLastKnight]

Hm. Well, least thats not a problem. You're in a school band? If so, what do you play?

 

[Tattered Rebirth]

Yeah, school band. I play trumpet. =D

 

[TheLastKnight]

I dunno. Maybe you could try "wowing" her with skills, or maybe talk to her about music.