alright, i'm in a little bit of a dilemma. there's this new girl at my school and she's pretty good looking and nice. she's really attached to me, and i don't blame her, she's the new girl. however, it seems more than that, i think she likes me. normally this wouldn't be a problem, but tomorrow might be different.
i'm going to this party tomorrow and she's going to probably come with me. the problem is, after she's loosened up a bit (in case you don't know, i drink and she does too), she might wanna go for me. once again, normally this wouldn't be a problem, but because she is new, i'm not sure if she's the kind of girl that would just have fun and we would stay the friends we are (no different), or if we did stuff, would she get more attached than she already is. i mean, i think the girl is cool and stuff, but i don't really want to make a commitment to her or anything, i like having my own space. however, getting action is getting action
so the question is, do i take my chances and possibly have this girl think that we might go out, or should i keep it cool and act like i'm not interested. i've had problems in the past like this, where girls think that i would like to go further with them by going out after we may have done stuff, and i've had to deny them. they usually get kinda sad and for some reason they think i used them. but keep in mind, i don't really use them, they come to me.
look, i'm not trying to act big or cool or anything, i am just telling it how it is. please, i don't want any people giving me lectures about what i'm doing is wrong or anything, i would prefer a straight answer. maybe it is dumb for me to post it here on this forum, but i'm also a little curious about what kind of answers i'm going to get so i know if i could post back in here again.
so what do you think i should do?
i'm going to this party tomorrow and she's going to probably come with me. the problem is, after she's loosened up a bit (in case you don't know, i drink and she does too), she might wanna go for me. once again, normally this wouldn't be a problem, but because she is new, i'm not sure if she's the kind of girl that would just have fun and we would stay the friends we are (no different), or if we did stuff, would she get more attached than she already is. i mean, i think the girl is cool and stuff, but i don't really want to make a commitment to her or anything, i like having my own space. however, getting action is getting action
so the question is, do i take my chances and possibly have this girl think that we might go out, or should i keep it cool and act like i'm not interested. i've had problems in the past like this, where girls think that i would like to go further with them by going out after we may have done stuff, and i've had to deny them. they usually get kinda sad and for some reason they think i used them. but keep in mind, i don't really use them, they come to me.
look, i'm not trying to act big or cool or anything, i am just telling it how it is. please, i don't want any people giving me lectures about what i'm doing is wrong or anything, i would prefer a straight answer. maybe it is dumb for me to post it here on this forum, but i'm also a little curious about what kind of answers i'm going to get so i know if i could post back in here again.
so what do you think i should do?