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[TheLastKnight]

Get in her pants.

Lol, maybe at a homecoming or prom see if she wants to dance,. it's plus if you know she's going a day or 2 before.

 

[Iridium]

all you guys are giving me is stuff I do to her (Flirt, stare etc.) Thank you for the help though. Like I said I didn't know she was going out with him so I had know way of knowing not to ask her.

Just ask her if she belongs to anyone, don't upfront try and include it in the middle of your conversation instead of starting off with, "you seeing anyone?". Act non chalant but don't lay it on too thick.

 

[terra2.0]

eighth grade doesn't have prom or homecoming. I already know she is seeing someone but if they break up I will ask from now on.

 

[Iridium]

For now just give up on pursuing her, but keep a look out if they end their relationship.
Just don't swoop in for the rebound though, results may vary.

 

[Nostalgia]

Listen to Ytt. If she happens to become single, and your options are open, that's one thing. But until that happens (assuming it will) try not to think about her. Chasing after a girl that's currently unavailable sucks, so I suggest you avoid the situation.

 

[Lycanthrope]

You're 13. Can a potential relationship really eat away at you that much, when you won't even be able to do that much with her?

I regret any middle school relationships.

 

[.Oji]

Jam it in.

Shit. I was sipping something when I read this. I'm still coughing.

As for the topic, I believe I read somewhere that she was taken? If that's the case, then you got two choices: A) Follow what my son Yttrxium said or B) Step your game up. *wink wink*

I must say though, it's kinda odd how you're already thinking about such things, imo. It's gonna get worst before it gets better, bud.

 

[Nostalgia]

You're 13. Can a potential relationship really eat away at you that much, when you won't even be able to do that much with her?

I regret any middle school relationships.

It can. It doesn't usually, but there's no reason to assume that it can't.

 

[Salty the Hero]

My advice is to just talk to her and get to know her better, and maybe she will ask you out.

 

[terra2.0]

In my school no girl askes the guy out...espiecially a guy like me.

 

[Annoyance]

The main thing you really need to do is get out there and talk to her.
Don't talk to her to get her to let her in your pants...because I think most girls can tell when you're doing that.
Just try to be friends first and then slowly get closer to her.

 

[Iridium]

In my school no girl askes the guy out...espiecially a guy like me.

It's happened to me, it's unlikely but not impossible.

 

[terra2.0]

WOOHOO last night at the dance I slow danced with her twice...and she says she is going to break up with her BF because he moves to fast. For me it is a win win.

 

[Iridium]

Great I suppose, but don't jump in.

Give her the time to actually break up with him, healing process (I'd give it a couple of weeks) then swoop in.
Though now you know how she (will) broke/break up with him, if you do take your chances with her make sure you don't make the same mistake.

 

[Dark Horizon]

NOW'S YOUR CHANCE.
RAVAGE HER.

Or... do the right thing like Yttrxium said...

 

[New2Ya]

I dont won't to have a "Quick Night" by any means.

Dude.

What. The. Fak?

You're THIRTEEEEEEN! Let me bold it for you.

13

Anyways, girls with boyfriends are hard prey. When a girl likes a boy, most of the times she will not change her mind easily. You can keep trying, but dont hurt yourself in the process.

 

[terra2.0]

I don't think I get what you are saying...why would she not change her mind and about what?

 

[New2Ya]

I don't think I get what you are saying...why would she not change her mind and about what?

When a girl has a BF (let me talk IM, some people understand it better :nahnah: ) she has him as her boyfriend because she really likes him. Not just because she needs one for the sake of it, but because he adds something to her life. Thus another guy trying to burst in, almost never works out.

This doesnt count for all women of course, but for most it does. I have 2 sisters so I understand women quite well.

 

[terra2.0]

she is breaking up with her BF because he moves to fast...I.E. He tried to kiss her on the second day they where going out, she doesn't like that. I was not trying to butt in the relationship for I had no knowledge of it.

 

[New2Ya]

she is breaking up with her BF because he moves to fast...I.E. He tried to kiss her on the second day they where going out, she doesn't like that. I was not trying to butt in the relationship for I had no knowledge of it.

Alright. My advice? Wait.

It'll be hard, and there's a chance she will find another boy if you wait too long.

But if you take action now, she'll see you as she sees him. Moving too quick.