Well... maybe not, but I'm tempted to. I already did that today. And cursed. And listened to loud music, which only made me ticked off more. I love Paramore's songs, but SHOOT. D:
I do NOT like my dad. I want to say hate, but it's horrible to hate, so... instead, it's dislike. And do not like. Anywhooooo~ It's because he's incredibly lazy and that laziness puts a HORRIBLE amount of strain on my mom. Considering he's moving out (though I have no clue when), I probably shouldn't care. BUT his laziness is part of the reason why he's moving out. That, and he's incredibly selfish sometimes. But, I'll tackle trying to fix his laziness first. If I can. .-. Maybe, if I help him stop being lazy, things will get better and my mom won't be so stressed out. It's worth a try...
I want to tell my dad that he's lazy. Except the last time that happen when my mom didn't even say he was lazy (he just took something the wrong way and screamed 'I AM NOT LAZY! >:[' at the top of his lungs and slammed the door after he cursed. Heavily.), he... did just what is written in those parenthesizes. He got so ANGRY about it and he has a horrible temper. Being horribly sensitive, I will probably burst into tears and look like a whiny little brat OR look incredibly stupid if I tell him that he is lazy. I'm also horribly timid and shy, so shy that I'm scared to talk to my dad a lot of times. He's not mean, but... his temper scares me. A lot.
On top of that, I have a decently bad temper myself that I'm NOT proud of, though I mostly keep it to myself more than anything. I will get angry, but it's hard to see it sometimes. I really just want to throw all of his stupid crap across the room and watch it break. If that was how things got fixed, I would do that... but it doesn't, so I have to resort to my worst skill: speaking.
How do I tell my dad that he's lazy? And how do I do it without making things worse and do all of that in a nice, calm manner? I'm absolutely terrified, but I have to do SOMETHING. :[
Thank you very, very much in advance!
I do NOT like my dad. I want to say hate, but it's horrible to hate, so... instead, it's dislike. And do not like. Anywhooooo~ It's because he's incredibly lazy and that laziness puts a HORRIBLE amount of strain on my mom. Considering he's moving out (though I have no clue when), I probably shouldn't care. BUT his laziness is part of the reason why he's moving out. That, and he's incredibly selfish sometimes. But, I'll tackle trying to fix his laziness first. If I can. .-. Maybe, if I help him stop being lazy, things will get better and my mom won't be so stressed out. It's worth a try...
I want to tell my dad that he's lazy. Except the last time that happen when my mom didn't even say he was lazy (he just took something the wrong way and screamed 'I AM NOT LAZY! >:[' at the top of his lungs and slammed the door after he cursed. Heavily.), he... did just what is written in those parenthesizes. He got so ANGRY about it and he has a horrible temper. Being horribly sensitive, I will probably burst into tears and look like a whiny little brat OR look incredibly stupid if I tell him that he is lazy. I'm also horribly timid and shy, so shy that I'm scared to talk to my dad a lot of times. He's not mean, but... his temper scares me. A lot.
On top of that, I have a decently bad temper myself that I'm NOT proud of, though I mostly keep it to myself more than anything. I will get angry, but it's hard to see it sometimes. I really just want to throw all of his stupid crap across the room and watch it break. If that was how things got fixed, I would do that... but it doesn't, so I have to resort to my worst skill: speaking.
How do I tell my dad that he's lazy? And how do I do it without making things worse and do all of that in a nice, calm manner? I'm absolutely terrified, but I have to do SOMETHING. :[
Thank you very, very much in advance!
