I think I have some confusion as to what this really entails, in Christian beliefs anyway.
I know lust as desire for sex, but how would that would be avoidable in modern society?
I would consider finding someone attractive as a desire for sex, to a certain extent at least. It is only because they are beautiful that I have that desire. If we didnt think they were attractive, we wouldnt desire them like that, would we?
There are plenty of people I think are sexually desirable, purely based on their looks, as I have no deeper knowledge of them. Isnt desire just the natural response for finding someone attractive?
Conscieniously, I just thnk of looks as a positive feature, like athletic ability or intelligence, but subconscientiously that trait as valued differently.
How can I not think of attractive people as attractive? Are we not allowed to think of physical appearances as a positive attribute for others? Is lust based on the conscientious desire ,or in depth contemplation, of sex or just the subconscientious, more primal, instinct for sex?
There are two main reasons to have sex,that I can think of, which are pleasure and reproduction.
Am I to believe there is no Christian way to have sex unless I want to have a child?
If I dont want a child there would be no acceptatble reason to have sex.
I guess you could use a symbol of Love as a reason for sex, but the act of sex isnt neccessary to get that result. You could have the same effect by just being willing to do it, not actually doing it. If you were some how obstructed from having sex from the one you love, for whatever reason, wouldnt the the willingness to do it show as much of a bond as if you have done it fully? You cant get the same effect ,of pleasure and reproduction, from just being willing to have sex with someone. Is it right to group these reasons together when they arnt?
Does anyone know what the Church teaches about this, in regards to what I have said?
I know lust as desire for sex, but how would that would be avoidable in modern society?
I would consider finding someone attractive as a desire for sex, to a certain extent at least. It is only because they are beautiful that I have that desire. If we didnt think they were attractive, we wouldnt desire them like that, would we?
There are plenty of people I think are sexually desirable, purely based on their looks, as I have no deeper knowledge of them. Isnt desire just the natural response for finding someone attractive?
Conscieniously, I just thnk of looks as a positive feature, like athletic ability or intelligence, but subconscientiously that trait as valued differently.
How can I not think of attractive people as attractive? Are we not allowed to think of physical appearances as a positive attribute for others? Is lust based on the conscientious desire ,or in depth contemplation, of sex or just the subconscientious, more primal, instinct for sex?
There are two main reasons to have sex,that I can think of, which are pleasure and reproduction.
Am I to believe there is no Christian way to have sex unless I want to have a child?
If I dont want a child there would be no acceptatble reason to have sex.
I guess you could use a symbol of Love as a reason for sex, but the act of sex isnt neccessary to get that result. You could have the same effect by just being willing to do it, not actually doing it. If you were some how obstructed from having sex from the one you love, for whatever reason, wouldnt the the willingness to do it show as much of a bond as if you have done it fully? You cant get the same effect ,of pleasure and reproduction, from just being willing to have sex with someone. Is it right to group these reasons together when they arnt?
Does anyone know what the Church teaches about this, in regards to what I have said?