ok so i like this girl. and i sit next to her in first period. and i looked over at her and we made eye contact and then we started laughing for no reason, so am i paranoid or is there a chance she likes me? and it gets hard to talk to her somtimes
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So, you've talked to her before? That's good. Did you find anything out about her? If so, than theres probably not even a girl problem to deal with here...and it gets hard to talk to her somtimes
ok so i like this girl. and i sit next to her in first period. and i looked over at her and we made eye contact and then we started laughing for no reason, so am i paranoid or is there a chance she likes me? and it gets hard to talk to her somtimes
Possibly or she's just being nice.
Yeah, didn't mean to shoot down your dreams right there, but for the most part that does happen a lot.
Still it's a good sign, try talking to her casually and become friends with her.
That's a major leap when considering her as a potential partner, but remember confidence is key. Without that you won't stand much of a chance at winning her over; but I digress as I am single to this day =\
But with confidence comes karma, don't let it go to your head, be yourself around her and don't worry about trying to impress her too hard; girls don't like that.
Becoming friends is a step by step process:
1) Usually this works for me, try making a conversation breezy and short for the first couple of days. Eventually move on to the moderate to slightly longer deep conversations.
2) Discuss similar interests, you're going to have to eventually. Knowing the things she likes helps you know what kind of things she's into. Not all of them will match up; that's inevitable but if there are a good amount listed then that's good. 4\5 is always good ;3 lol
3) Take the friend process slow to moderate speed, moving too fast could make things worse. I'm not talking about the actual relationship itself but becoming a good friend shouldn't be rushed either.
4) If all goes well she'll eventually have the same feelings for you. But don't expect perfect results, she might already have a boyfriend or she might reject you. Rejection is always a part of the dating game so brace yourself for it always. And if she does reject you just move on, no need to get hung up on some girl. Things like that can halt your every day life, it's happened to me quite a few times but eventually I had to get over it.
Well I know someone's going to summarize the gist of this post into a smaller paragraph leaving this for the people who have time actually read it but I just hope some of my advice helps.
It's only advice after all so do what you see fit.
Somtimes its hard to talk to her cuz she is not all that smart
Somtimes its hard to talk to her cuz she is not all that smart
if i ask her out is the thing