Kid, you're going to find that every single forum acts exactly the same. There's not distinction between "nice" and "mean". This is how people naturally act, both in real life and on the internet. Sooner or later, you're bound to learn this. Just because we don't allow you to run rampant doing whatever you want does not in any way make us "the bad guys." We have to keep the entire forum running smoothly for everyone's sake, not just yours.