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Ramadan is a time of spiritual reflection and worship. Muslims are expected to put more effort into following the teachings of Islam and to avoid obscene and irreligious sights and sounds. Sexual intercourse among spouses is allowed after one has ended the daily fast. During fasting intercourse is prohibited as well as eating and drinking, one is also encouraged to resist all temptations while you are fasting. Purity of both thoughts and actions is important. The act of fasting is said to redirect the heart away from worldly activities, its purpose being to cleanse the inner soul and free it from harm. It also teaches Muslims to practice self-discipline, self-control,[9] sacrifice, and empathy for those who are less fortunate; thus encouraging actions of generosity and charity (Zakat)
Ramadan is also a time when Muslims are to slow down from worldly affairs and focus on self-reformation, spiritual cleansing and enlightenment; this is to establish a link between themselves and God through prayer, supplication, charity, good deeds, kindness and helping others. Since it is a festival of giving and sharing, Muslims prepare special foods and buy gifts for their family and friends and for giving to the poor and needy who cannot afford it; this can involve buying new clothes, shoes and other items of need.
You want to avoid bad habits regardless. If you are doing anything for "pleasure" then it's not allowed. It's hard to explain that. It is really all about intent, ignore my use of the word pleasure. For example, you are allowed to brush your teeth with toothpaste when fasting, but you can't swallow anything. Likewise, if your mouth gets incredibly dry, you can flush it with water, but once again you can't swallow it.
Whenever I fast, my lips get incredibly dry, and subconsciously (I guess out of hunger?) I start to use my teeth to peel the skin off my lips. This is a habit I want to kick.
I accidently took a sip of RooAfsa right before today's fast was ending. :x *sigh*
Lol. Fail bro But yh as Brother Batman (lol) said, and I'm sure you know, if it was an accident without the intention, the fast is still valid considering you stop eating as soon as you're aware of what you done.I accidently took a sip of RooAfsa right before today's fast was ending. :x *sigh*
Great to see all of the conversation, considering how old this thread is.
@Nelo Angelo: firstly, assalamualaikum. Second, I can't believe how long you have to fast over there. In Florida we finish Sahoor (breakfast) at 5:20 am and break fast at 8:20 pm. It must be hard for you, but like you said, the harder it is the more hasanat you shall receive.
@Jeels: pretty much what Bats said, as long as it wasn't intentional, then your fast hasn't been broken.
On that note, a friend of mine told me that when you forget and accidentally eat or drink something during your fast, than that means Allah made it so you could take a drink or eat as a reward. I'm not sure if this is true so could anybody verify this?
IX. Things which do not invalidate your Fasting
During fasting, the following things are permissible:
· Bathing. The Prophet (PBUH) was reported to have poured water over his head while he was fasting either because of thirst or heat. (Ahmad, Malik & Abu-Dawood) If water is swallowed involuntarily, it does not invalidate fasting.
· The use of al-Kuhi (eye powder). Anas (RA) reported that the Prophet (PBUH) used to use al-Kuhi while fasting.
· Kissing one's husband or wife provided that one is able to control himself/herself; 'Aa'isha (RA) reported that the Prophet (PBUH) used to kiss while fasting and touch while fasting (but) he was the most (able) of you in controlling himself
· Rinsing the mouth or nostrils with water provided that it is not overdone (so as to avoid swallowing water).
· Swallowing things which are not possible to avoid such as one's own secretions (i. g. saliva) or street dust etc.
· Tasting the food being purchased (or cooked) with the tip of the tongue. (this was reported by Ibn 'Abbas (RA)).
· Taking injections (of any type).
· Smelling flowers or wearing perfumes, etc.
· One may continue his/her fast even if he/she is Junub, (the state after intercourse or night discharge and before bathing). Likewise, women at the end of the periods of menstruation or post childbirth confinement periods may start fasting if bleeding stops at night (any time before dawn). In all of the above cases, bathing may be delayed until the following morning and the fast is valid.
· If one forgets that he/she is fasting and he/she eats or drinks, provided that one should stop eating or drinking as soon as he/she remembers. The same rule applies to those who are involuntarily forced to break the fast.
The Prophet (PBUH) said: If anyone forgets that he/she is fasting and eats or thinks he/she should complete his fast, for it is only Allah who has fed him/her and given him/her drink. (Muslim, al-Bukhan).
· Involuntary throw-up. The Prophet (PBUH) said: "If anyone involuntarily vomits (while fasting), he does not have to make up (for that day). (But if anyone deliberately causes himself to vomit, he must make up (for that day)." (Ahmad, Abu-Dawood, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah)
In either case, the person must continue to fast for the rest of the day.
X. Invalidating the Fast
A. Those which Invalidate Fasting and Require Qada' only (making up for the missed day or days, a day for a day). This category includes:
· Eating and/or drinking deliberately (including partaking non-nourishing items by the mouth).
· Deliberately causing oneself to vomit.
· The beginning of menstruation or post-childbirth bleeding even in the last moment before sunset.
· Ejaculation for reasons other than sexual intercourse, (e. g. kissing or hugging one's wife).
· Eating, thinking, smoking or having sexual intercourse after Fajr (dawn) on the mistaken assumption that it is not Fajr time yet. Similarly, engaging in these acts before Maghrib (sunset) on the mistaken assumption that it is already Maghrib time.
B. An Act which Invalidates Fasting and Requires Qada' and Kaffarah (an act of atonement).
Sexual intercourse during the period of fast (dawn to sunset) not only invalidates the fast but involves an additional penalty as well. The penalty is to set a slave free. If this is not available or possible, one must fast an additional period of 60 continuous days. If one is not able to, then he must feed sixty poor persons one average meal each.
Abu Hurairah (RA) reported that a man broke the fast in Ramadan (deliberately). The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) instructed him to atone for this by setting a slave free or to fast two continuous months or to feed sixty poor persons. (Muslim)
The majority of jurists make no distinction between men and women in the applicability of the above penalty provided that both deliberately engaged in sexual intercourse during the day (dawn to sunset in Ramadan).
If both forgot that they were fasting, or did not intend to fast, (e. g. due to illness or travel), or were fasting before or after the month of Ramadan, the penalty does not apply. If the wife was forced into intercourse by her husband (during the day in Ramadan) or if she was not fasting for a legitimate reason, then the penalty applies to the husband only. Ash-Shafi'i, however, believes that the wife is not penalized even if she accepts to engage in sexual intercourse with her husband. She is required only to make up for the missed day (a day-for-day). One version attributed to Ahmad Ibn Hanbal concurs with this.
I have a friend who says he is not going to eat or sleep for three days. Three days he will spend meditating and praying.
This not only strikes me as freakish and bizarre but also foolish. Supposedly the idea is to bring yourself closer to God by denying yourself the things of the flesh. Aside from the physical concerns I think I would question any 'religious experience' I have while denying my mind the necessary sleep to discern reality from fantasy.
So this thread is about that situation in particular as well as general discussion of meditation and fasting as a religious practice.