Well I'm currently engaged to my girlfriend I.E. fiance. Love is going through hell for one another and even after what you've been through together still wanting to be apart of that other person's life. I'm not saying in a stalker type situation like getting arrested and restraining orders constantly and even after that wanting to still be with that person. What i mean is, my experience for instance. Having her mom hate you, to her friends calling you a piece of shit every chance they get, to your dad telling you you're wrong and calling her out of her name and disrespecting her to that your best friend doing the exact same thing, to finally her father telling you he'd kill you if you ever talked to her again. And all of that just because you're dating his daughter, you haven't done anything wrong and you haven't said anything for them to hate you or her it just happens. Oh and the kicker she moves almost 800 miles away.
After all that still wanting to be with one another and actually having a real relationship and doing whatever it takes to make the other happy.
That's what real love is to me...
But what do i know eh haha
EDIT: I neglected to mention I'm black & she's Puerto Rican. Where I'm from those two just don't seem to get along.