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Annoyance

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You should try to be honest with him and just cut him off. Stop responding to his messages if he's still sending any after you send him a clear, non-depressed, no ellipsis message.

Just a clear cut.
"I don't think this is what I want in a relationship. I'm sorry but it's over. Good-bye."


Don't let him argue you out of it. Guys sometimes do that.
 

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You should try to be honest with him and just cut him off. Stop responding to his messages if he's still sending any after you send him a clear, non-depressed, no ellipsis message.

Just a clear cut.
"I don't think this is what I want in a relationship. I'm sorry but it's over. Good-bye."


Don't let him argue you out of it. Guys sometimes do that.
I have stop replying to them after awhile yesterday, but he kept on sending other messages saying "See you're ignoring me again" or "Fine don't talk to me"
and then he would logg off and send another message complaining.. :(

but you're right...I should..it might be hard for me to try and not be depressed about it but I can try...

and what do you mean by that? You're saying he'll try to talk to me with some other complain to avoid me trying to break up with him? :/
Wouldn't that mean he's a coward about it? because when he told me why dont i break up with him...I actually started thinking to myself why couldn't he say it himself?
 

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You should try to be honest with him and just cut him off. Stop responding to his messages if he's still sending any after you send him a clear, non-depressed, no ellipsis message.

Just a clear cut.
"I don't think this is what I want in a relationship. I'm sorry but it's over. Good-bye."


Don't let him argue you out of it. Guys sometimes do that.
Oops..I posted that twice.. D:
 
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I have stop replying to them after awhile yesterday, but he kept on sending other messages saying "See you're ignoring me again" or "Fine don't talk to me"
and then he would logg off and send another message complaining.. :(

but you're right...I should..it might be hard for me to try and not be depressed about it but I can try...

and what do you mean by that? You're saying he'll try to talk to me with some other complain to avoid me trying to break up with him? :/
Wouldn't that mean he's a coward about it? because when he told me why dont i break up with him...I actually started thinking to myself why couldn't he say it himself?

your long relationship bf is a real pain in the ass...even i dont do that..
 

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I have stop replying to them after awhile yesterday, but he kept on sending other messages saying "See you're ignoring me again" or "Fine don't talk to me"
and then he would logg off and send another message complaining.. :(

but you're right...I should..it might be hard for me to try and not be depressed about it but I can try...

and what do you mean by that? You're saying he'll try to talk to me with some other complain to avoid me trying to break up with him? :/
Wouldn't that mean he's a coward about it? because when he told me why dont i break up with him...I actually started thinking to myself why couldn't he say it himself?
I mean like he'll say things like Nooo~ I'll change, I love you, [nice things], etc.

You need to be clear about how you feel, why, etc.
 

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if he would want to change himself just for you .. then go for it
but if not then just dump him at the rubbish dump
 

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i would for my special one
horseshit.

"changing for someone" is just about the gayest thing ever. if who you are already does not work for the relationship, then the relationship does not work period.

only exception to this is couples who have been together for several years.
 

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horseshit.

"changing for someone" is just about the gayest thing ever. if who you are already does not work for the relationship, then the relationship does not work period.

only exception to this is couples who have been together for several years.

i mean of getting nicer ...
 

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I mean like he'll say things like Nooo~ I'll change, I love you, [nice things], etc.

You need to be clear about how you feel, why, etc.
He's acutally said stuff like that...He didn't say he would change...but he's said stuff like Ooh I love you and blah blah..and Im just like...okay..yah..

But I stopped talking to him...
 
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