This is fairly lengthy. So bear with me please. If you don’t like reading, you might as well leave now.
There is a lovely female I have a gargantuan crush on. I believe she’s attracted to me as well, but can’t be too certain. It initially began as her “stalking” me in a sense. Every morning she would literally stand and wait for me (we cross paths on the way to our classes) and “coincidentally” walk pass me the instant I arrived. I find this strange, considering the times I get to school are variable. I can be late, I can be early, but she was always there.
There was this one instance where I had to go to her class. After taking one look at me, she immediately started to whisper to her friend while giggling uncontrollably (A LOT) for no real reason (and her face turned beet red. Seriously, I didn’t do anything remotely comical.)
Outside, I found her staring at me like a piece of meat a little while ago. My friend even told me he caught her staring at my ***<_<…
Eventually, I generated the testicular fortitude to talk to her. When I did, her eyes virtually lit up. And she had a huge smile on her face the entire time. I began speaking with her for about a week (and she constantly referred to me as “Georgie”). The ongoing flirting went on for about a week, until she finally asked me to add her to her Myspace. You’re most likely asking yourselves why haven’t I asked her out yet, right? Well…
The very same day, she dropped a bombshell on me. She told me she had a boyfriend. I was shocked upon hearing this. I was so baffled she asked “Does that surprise you?” then I said “No. It’s just that you’re boyfriend’s a lucky bastard” and left it at that.
So the following Monday, I ignored her (trying to get her out of my head, she is engaged in a relationship after all, right?) Well the same day she messaged me asking how come I did not speak to her.
After making some BS excuse, we talked on Myspace for about an hour afterwards. We had a considerably interesting conversation.
Sometime afterward (not long AT ALL) her and her boyfriend broke it off. At any rate, her innocent stares at me continued on for a while. At this point, I became extremely flustered and wanted to see if she had genuine interest in me or not. So on my Myspace, I put “can’t get her out of his head!” on my status. Naturally, if she bore any interest in me, she’d wonder who this “girl” was, correct? Planned worked perfectly, she messaged me in little less than an hour asking was it her that I couldn’t get out of her head. Boy was she unto something…and she seemed overwhelming anxious to see who it was…>_>
So with that, I sang like a canary and divulged all my “feelings” about her. It really didn’t go anywhere past an “I’m glad you told me how you felt” sort of thing. So not very long after, we and a couple of her friends got into the subject of dating. She said she “almost” had a boyfriend and glanced at me for about 2 seconds before we both made eye contact and she turned away. She also refused to tell me who her “almost” boyfriend was (despite him “supposedly” not going to our school)
Fed up with all this, I finally decided to ask her out. In the end, she REJECTED me saying how she was “kinda talking to someone else” (which I’d presume was this mystery guy) but the expression on her face made looked like an on the fly excuse.
Finally she told me she sees me as “just a friend”. Though her actions spoke louder than her words. Now lately, she’s been staring at me like crazy and it’s beginning to get on my nerves. If you just see us as friends and “almost” have a boyfriend, why the hell do you keep looking at me?! I already asked you out, what more do you want from me?
Alright, KHI, what should I do next? I ask, because I’m seriously getting ready to throw in the towel. Suggestions? I’m very much into her, but at the same time am tired of playing games.
There is a lovely female I have a gargantuan crush on. I believe she’s attracted to me as well, but can’t be too certain. It initially began as her “stalking” me in a sense. Every morning she would literally stand and wait for me (we cross paths on the way to our classes) and “coincidentally” walk pass me the instant I arrived. I find this strange, considering the times I get to school are variable. I can be late, I can be early, but she was always there.
There was this one instance where I had to go to her class. After taking one look at me, she immediately started to whisper to her friend while giggling uncontrollably (A LOT) for no real reason (and her face turned beet red. Seriously, I didn’t do anything remotely comical.)
Outside, I found her staring at me like a piece of meat a little while ago. My friend even told me he caught her staring at my ***<_<…
Eventually, I generated the testicular fortitude to talk to her. When I did, her eyes virtually lit up. And she had a huge smile on her face the entire time. I began speaking with her for about a week (and she constantly referred to me as “Georgie”). The ongoing flirting went on for about a week, until she finally asked me to add her to her Myspace. You’re most likely asking yourselves why haven’t I asked her out yet, right? Well…
The very same day, she dropped a bombshell on me. She told me she had a boyfriend. I was shocked upon hearing this. I was so baffled she asked “Does that surprise you?” then I said “No. It’s just that you’re boyfriend’s a lucky bastard” and left it at that.
So the following Monday, I ignored her (trying to get her out of my head, she is engaged in a relationship after all, right?) Well the same day she messaged me asking how come I did not speak to her.
After making some BS excuse, we talked on Myspace for about an hour afterwards. We had a considerably interesting conversation.
Sometime afterward (not long AT ALL) her and her boyfriend broke it off. At any rate, her innocent stares at me continued on for a while. At this point, I became extremely flustered and wanted to see if she had genuine interest in me or not. So on my Myspace, I put “can’t get her out of his head!” on my status. Naturally, if she bore any interest in me, she’d wonder who this “girl” was, correct? Planned worked perfectly, she messaged me in little less than an hour asking was it her that I couldn’t get out of her head. Boy was she unto something…and she seemed overwhelming anxious to see who it was…>_>
So with that, I sang like a canary and divulged all my “feelings” about her. It really didn’t go anywhere past an “I’m glad you told me how you felt” sort of thing. So not very long after, we and a couple of her friends got into the subject of dating. She said she “almost” had a boyfriend and glanced at me for about 2 seconds before we both made eye contact and she turned away. She also refused to tell me who her “almost” boyfriend was (despite him “supposedly” not going to our school)
Fed up with all this, I finally decided to ask her out. In the end, she REJECTED me saying how she was “kinda talking to someone else” (which I’d presume was this mystery guy) but the expression on her face made looked like an on the fly excuse.
Finally she told me she sees me as “just a friend”. Though her actions spoke louder than her words. Now lately, she’s been staring at me like crazy and it’s beginning to get on my nerves. If you just see us as friends and “almost” have a boyfriend, why the hell do you keep looking at me?! I already asked you out, what more do you want from me?
Alright, KHI, what should I do next? I ask, because I’m seriously getting ready to throw in the towel. Suggestions? I’m very much into her, but at the same time am tired of playing games.
